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The story is like everyone else) I met a Turk on the Internet, we correspond, we call each other, he calls me, speaks of the seriousness of his intentions, wants to marry ... Should I believe him and go or not?
The story is like everyone else) I met a Turk on the Internet, we correspond, we call each other, he calls me, speaks of the seriousness of his intentions, wants to marry ... Should I believe him and go or not?
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Well, who knows better than you, to believe him or not? If he is already asking for money (grandmother feels bad, her brother needs to marry, etc.), then ... think! In fact, men are a proud people, and the Turks too, but if he asks for money, then he looks like a gigolo!
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answered 8 years ago
No, he doesn’t ask for money, on the contrary, he says he will pay for the road and really wants to stay ... But I have never been to Turkey and heard many similar stories about meeting Turks on the Internet and a lot of negative reviews ... I just want to believe that not everything is so bad that everything is different with us ...
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answered 8 years ago
)))) Thank you, cheered me up.
There is a simple solution. Since the guy from the Internet wanted to get married, let him go to Stavropol and get married, that's business.
There is a simple solution. Since the guy from the Internet wanted to get married, let him go to Stavropol and get married, that's business.
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answered 8 years ago
and don't say ... finally the fun has come))
baby, how old are you? no offense
baby, how old are you? no offense
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answered 8 years ago
okay, I'll smooth it ... it's better to do it and regret it than not do it and regret it anyway. Sooner or later you will run into ... so it's better to ride a Turkish rake and enjoy the trip. But if complaints about life and requests for help begin, immediately legs in hand. Yes, keep your passport out of harm's way, take just enough money, but be sure to get a return ticket. Don't trust men generously showering compliments with endless jokes and verbal diarrhea...and asking a lot of questions for life. And don't forget, the Turk, whatever one may say, is a foreign organism for a white man.
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answered 8 years ago
I'm 30 and not particularly naive, and not at all trusting... It's just that sometimes you want to believe in a fairy tale... Our Russian: What if!)
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answered 8 years ago
I suggested that he first come here for at least a couple of days, and then I, if everything goes well ... But now the Turks need a visa to enter Russia, but it seems easier for us ... Maybe true, maybe not
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answered 8 years ago
So he wants to swindle, you can get a visa, tea Russia is not Turkmenistan.
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answered 8 years ago
well then, you can take the risk. Take all his data, say otherwise, mom will not let go, but it’s better that he talks to mom on Skype ... and even better with dad)) With such intentions, he won’t be able to refuse. And he himself must show at least some sister-brother. You can also arrange a test for lice and tell how hard it is for you ... the crisis, there is no work blah blah blah ... how they will react ... if the question is hushed up, a bad sign. A professional gigolo does not show up very soon ... and even spends a lot at first ... but then he definitely takes his toll. I hope he doesn't think you're wealthy? How old is he?
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answered 8 years ago
He is 37, he runs a hotel-restaurant, lived in Norway, returned to Turkey again. He showed my photo to his family: to his parents and sister, he says that they don’t mind ... He says that there are a lot of girls for one night, that he doesn’t need this, he wants a family ... In general, the person is very disposed to himself, you have to take a chance ! But I immediately said that I would only arrive in July ... There is just time to get to know each other even better
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answered 8 years ago
Enchantingly))) I propose to unsubscribe here until July about the development of the situation.
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answered 8 years ago
We met on the Internet and immediately, without seeing each other, does she call for marriage? Of course, nothing suspicious! That's how it should be! Only suckers (Russian men) first come to get acquainted with the bride's family, while the Turks have everything as it should be - without stupid prejudices! Let the "bride" come, there is a free little formality - a free test drive, and then immediately, of course, a wedding with a white limousine and a fabulous life in the palace!
Okay, at 16 you can believe in this, but at 30 ...
Where do the Turks find such naive? I would also not refuse a couple of such "brides" in the address book, but if I try to scroll through this, at best, I will get it in my impudent face))) As in the joke about Rzhevsky - "you can also in the face, but it usually rolls ", but it seems that to" roll ", you have to be a Turk - they believe more))
Okay, at 16 you can believe in this, but at 30 ...
Where do the Turks find such naive? I would also not refuse a couple of such "brides" in the address book, but if I try to scroll through this, at best, I will get it in my impudent face))) As in the joke about Rzhevsky - "you can also in the face, but it usually rolls ", but it seems that to" roll ", you have to be a Turk - they believe more))
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answered 8 years ago
Of course) only the most interesting things will happen in July, I'm afraid to be disappointed, to be honest...
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answered 8 years ago
talk, talk, I will listen to you (voice of L. Gurchenko) What does it mean to show a photo to a family? you PERSONALLY saw someone? if he tells you that mom blessed you, will you believe it too? and what made it so? that without knowing you already makes an offer?? this is not a boy with spermatotoxicosis ... the understanding is already working and knows what he wants. Take the coordinates of the hotel, full name ... it's all easily broken through. And about the birds ... in such a position at that age and not married. You are no longer a girl, you must think .... I don’t like all this ohh how I don’t like it
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answered 8 years ago
Why not seeing ... A lot of photos, he even sends a video of his house, we talk on the phone, we correspond, he is interested in my every step
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answered 8 years ago
Moreover, a friend from my work spoke Turkish with him, she knows the language, he said that he really wants a family ... That it’s not for one night, he said I’ll pay for both the road, just come
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answered 8 years ago
no, you are still well preserved)) to see and know different things! men are too mercantile and pragmatic in contrast to women ... such decisions are made only at gunpoint, if it is unprofitable ... or you did not grow up together. Abstract, he is not you! blessed is he who believes ... but on such faiths some make a fortune and receive pleasure, while others remain barefoot with a broken heart
the simplest and most effective ... let him book a hotel room and reset the scan. Only in this case go and no apartments! Interesting to see how it turns out. And also tell me you will come with your mother, they won’t let you in alone! Well, will you turn on your brain? or more pleasant in July to be with a nervous breakdown. Sorry, I don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel ... believe the specialist and just an experienced woman
the simplest and most effective ... let him book a hotel room and reset the scan. Only in this case go and no apartments! Interesting to see how it turns out. And also tell me you will come with your mother, they won’t let you in alone! Well, will you turn on your brain? or more pleasant in July to be with a nervous breakdown. Sorry, I don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel ... believe the specialist and just an experienced woman
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answered 8 years ago
It is necessary to turn on the brain ... My friends have a friend who is married to a Turk, you can ask them to find out about this person in advance, let everyone meet together! )) and then we'll see, maybe I won't like it in my life ... Or maybe vice versa ...
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answered 8 years ago
http://www.turpravda.ua/tr/question-44648.html#answer282335
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answered 8 years ago
already pays for her girlfriend’s way ??))) not well, tse blah vsheee
"really wants a family" and speaks loudly?? and right in Turkish?? mdyaaya And I'm really flying to the moon tomorrow! And why don't they believe me???
let's do it, you have already decided everything for yourself and our advice is up to the lamp ... go, open a new topic Help! How to live further?! that's when we'll talk. I lost interest in you sorry
"really wants a family" and speaks loudly?? and right in Turkish?? mdyaaya And I'm really flying to the moon tomorrow! And why don't they believe me???
let's do it, you have already decided everything for yourself and our advice is up to the lamp ... go, open a new topic Help! How to live further?! that's when we'll talk. I lost interest in you sorry
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answered 8 years ago
--- My friends have a friend who is married to a Turk, you can ask them to find out about this person in advance, let them all meet together! )) --
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answered 8 years ago
It does not bother me that he is a Turk, it does not bother me that at 37 he is not married and it does not bother me that the Turk does not want to go to Russia at the moment. This is all normal and logical.
And this is what confuses: 90% of Turkish Internet suitors "manage the hotel", 90% of them worked in Norway, Germany, Denmark (substitute the necessary), and 90% drive a blizzard that "I showed the photo to the family, they liked you ". The last thing a Turkish mother will do is approve the candidacy of a Russian daughter-in-law from a photograph. And these unintelligent conversations about girls for one night, which are full of ...
There are miracles - there always remain 10% of those who, after an internship in Europe, manage a hotel or restaurant in Turkey, who fall in love with a photo and are ready for anything. If Yuliana likes a man, let him be in these 10% :)
And, yes, comrades, about gigolos. They are everywhere, but in this case, do not confuse Turkey with Egypt. It's like white and black.
And this is what confuses: 90% of Turkish Internet suitors "manage the hotel", 90% of them worked in Norway, Germany, Denmark (substitute the necessary), and 90% drive a blizzard that "I showed the photo to the family, they liked you ". The last thing a Turkish mother will do is approve the candidacy of a Russian daughter-in-law from a photograph. And these unintelligent conversations about girls for one night, which are full of ...
There are miracles - there always remain 10% of those who, after an internship in Europe, manage a hotel or restaurant in Turkey, who fall in love with a photo and are ready for anything. If Yuliana likes a man, let him be in these 10% :)
And, yes, comrades, about gigolos. They are everywhere, but in this case, do not confuse Turkey with Egypt. It's like white and black.
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answered 8 years ago
Not a friend, but a colleague, she knows Turkish, she herself is an Armenian from Azerbaijan. By the way, it was her friend who was married to a Turk ... And for the first time, that same bride went to Turkey to her fiancé with a friend who knew Turkish
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answered 8 years ago
That is, history repeats itself, so we were not embarrassed by this situation ... I alone can’t win, of course, especially since I’m going home to him right away
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answered 8 years ago
yuliana1502, read the story after all
http://www.turpravda.ua/tr/question-42145.html#answer268055
everyone is different, this girl thought that her chosen one was not like everyone else.
I really feel sorry for her, and I really sympathized with her.
http://www.turpravda.ua/tr/question-42145.html#answer268055
everyone is different, this girl thought that her chosen one was not like everyone else.
I really feel sorry for her, and I really sympathized with her.
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