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I met a Turk on the Internet. We are now talking on Skype. He offers me to come to Turkey at least for a week once, and then marriage and all at his expense. I feel like something is wrong here. How do you think?
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If you are Orthodox baptized, then what faith will you bring your children to? A Muslim will never give you back either spiritually or physically if you want a divorce. This is the main answer to your question.
If not, then just think about what this marriage will give you. Is it just a change of native land to "abroad" or is it crazy love for life? Honestly, I doubt it.
A "divorce of suckers" is the most common option.
Do you need it in your life?
If not, then just think about what this marriage will give you. Is it just a change of native land to "abroad" or is it crazy love for life? Honestly, I doubt it.
A "divorce of suckers" is the most common option.
Do you need it in your life?
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answered 10 years ago
What can we think here? The main thing is that you yourself think. Since everything is at his expense, invite him to Russia for a week 1 time at his expense (not to your home, of course), so you will take a closer look at the "groom".
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answered 10 years ago
Even if you feel something is wrong when talking with him via Skype, what can you advise us without knowing the person?
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answered 10 years ago
Ollennka answered very correctly, invite him to your city for the first acquaintance, settle in neutral territory and talk. If he refuses to come, referring to being busy, it will immediately become clear that he has frivolous intentions.
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answered 10 years ago
yes everything is clear here. Sometimes I envy the Turks - it's necessary to be able to breed naive Slavic girls like that. So that she goes herself, most likely for her own money, in order to deliver delight))) I support the above - you need to invite here, if you come and live for a week - you can continue. If he refuses, referring to employment or "sick mother (sister, grandfather) - a typical scoundrel.
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answered 10 years ago
well, anything can happen. I have friends who are HAPPYLY married to the Egyptians on Skype. and oh how rare
All kinds of situations happen, all kinds of people. and no matter what nationality. Naturally, somewhere there is a greater% of mediocrity.
you decide. the main thing is to protect yourself.
for example option 1 if you are going to turkey. let him buy you a tour to the hotel. even if the hotel is cheap, but through our tour operator.
option 2 - he flies to you: he buys plane tickets, rents an apartment. it's up to you how and where to meet him
All kinds of situations happen, all kinds of people. and no matter what nationality. Naturally, somewhere there is a greater% of mediocrity.
you decide. the main thing is to protect yourself.
for example option 1 if you are going to turkey. let him buy you a tour to the hotel. even if the hotel is cheap, but through our tour operator.
option 2 - he flies to you: he buys plane tickets, rents an apartment. it's up to you how and where to meet him
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answered 10 years ago
in the first option, you must:
- ask for a scan copy of his passport or ID. give to a trusted person for safety.
- have a card with money that no one should be told about, wear it even in shorts, but in such a way that they are sure that no one will get it
- have a scanned copy + an electronic copy somewhere in the mail of your passport
- have medical insurance just in case
- ask for a scan copy of his passport or ID. give to a trusted person for safety.
- have a card with money that no one should be told about, wear it even in shorts, but in such a way that they are sure that no one will get it
- have a scanned copy + an electronic copy somewhere in the mail of your passport
- have medical insurance just in case
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answered 10 years ago
and in general, yes, Turks marry Slavs) this is already a normal practice. and not only in Slavic women, the main thing for them is not in their Turkish women) ... but that's another story))
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answered 10 years ago
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** wear at least in shorts, but so that they are sure that no one will get it **
She was going to the groom, and "no one will get you" ...
** wear at least in shorts, but so that they are sure that no one will get it **
She was going to the groom, and "no one will get you" ...
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answered 10 years ago
And how can you even propose marriage in advance, if you have never met, in fact, did not communicate and there was nothing at all? That is, any woman is his wife?
On our forum, everyone, usually, after a trip to a hotel, whines, they say, God has raped me, urgently married. And here, on the contrary, at first they promise to marry, never having met ...
That is, how did he make an offer, and if after the meeting you don’t like it, then what?
Some garbage, marriage in the scheme is clearly superfluous ;-)
On our forum, everyone, usually, after a trip to a hotel, whines, they say, God has raped me, urgently married. And here, on the contrary, at first they promise to marry, never having met ...
That is, how did he make an offer, and if after the meeting you don’t like it, then what?
Some garbage, marriage in the scheme is clearly superfluous ;-)
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answered 10 years ago
hatinka, the scheme clearly states - money in the morning, and chairs in the evening (and sometime later). :) How else to lure a girl over the seas, if not with a promise to marry "later"?
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answered 10 years ago
Alexandr- he is only potential ... so ... aspirin between the knees and forward!)))))))
hatinka he is not like everyone else )))
hatinka he is not like everyone else )))
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answered 10 years ago
And also go to the Kunstkamera. If you don’t see “your own”, you will have an idea anyway
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answered 10 years ago
Well, the scheme is simple: today we will get married, and then somehow we will sign.))
I would still prefer the first meeting in my native territory. If he is ready to sponsor your trip, let him sponsor his own first. And there you will see.
I would still prefer the first meeting in my native territory. If he is ready to sponsor your trip, let him sponsor his own first. And there you will see.
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answered 10 years ago
About getting married, but about our children, etc. - these are Turkish compliments, how to say "you are beautiful" anyway. If you want adventure and thrills - fly with the "alternate airfield" option - a hotel room in your name / confirmed reservation (preferably already paid for by him), money for transfer to the hotel and airport, your own credit card, give all its coordinates and copies of documents to a friend etc. The situation with the virtual prince is another attraction that can be. Do not wear rose-colored glasses, live more confidently for yourself. It will turn out to have a good time with a southern man and not spend money - wonderful, if it doesn’t work out - sunbathe and buy. I agree that you almost don’t know him, and even more so, in order to seriously advise something .. but remember also that who orders the music, he also dances the girl .. if they pay for you like this, then they will ask for a favor return it there on the spot - but like it or not like it .. already paid .. good luck!
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answered 10 years ago
I live in Egypt and I have hundreds of such stories before my eyes.
The first meeting on your territory, where you feel comfortable, if everything is serious and he wants to be with you, he will come. Then you need to read about the customs of the country and understand for yourself whether you can accept them. Believe me, NO ONE Arab man will adapt to you. You will have to adjust. So answer yourself the question of why he is so inviting, but does not want to come? The expenses are the same.
The first meeting on your territory, where you feel comfortable, if everything is serious and he wants to be with you, he will come. Then you need to read about the customs of the country and understand for yourself whether you can accept them. Believe me, NO ONE Arab man will adapt to you. You will have to adjust. So answer yourself the question of why he is so inviting, but does not want to come? The expenses are the same.
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answered 10 years ago
I know one thing for sure, if a girl has a head on her shoulders, marriage can succeed. The first rule is no savage, if you really go, then only to the hotel and look very carefully at the young man. There are successful marriages in Turkey and Egypt, but as a rule, people who are already well-established and who know their worth.
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answered 10 years ago
"Believe me, NO ONE Arab man will adapt to you." - gold words. Do you need it?
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answered 10 years ago
It's good that the author of the question asked this question. The opinion of those who answered is almost the same - "it's better you come to us." I hope the author's decision will be the same.
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answered 10 years ago
I agree with September 2008, the author of the question asked for advice and no one scoffed, everyone was imbued and answered who thought what. To be interested in such a step in advance is a competent strategy, I hope we helped the author of the question)))))))
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answered 10 years ago
Helped of course, thank you all for understanding and for advice))))
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answered 10 years ago
Invite him to your place, show your parents, get married here, if unbearable ... consult the Turkish consulate, embassy. Will this marriage concluded with us be legal in Turkey. Turkey today is a secular state, not Islamic, but the situation is changeable. The main population is Muslim. Everything can change. In fact, there are many Russian women married to Turks ... I saw it myself in Antalya, talked.
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answered 10 years ago
U nas v Estonii, turkey hotjtat cheresh zamueshtva viza Shengena...A potom taskajut vsju semeistvo(byvshie zeny etc) v Evropu..Smotri ochen mnogo pro eto v youtube....Ne byt naivny!!!!
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answered 10 years ago